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If I Can Hear My Neighbors Outside Can They Hear Me Inside?

Evenings seem to be the peak time for bothersome neighbor noise based on a 2020 poll. The online survey by The Waycroft revealed that approximately 45% of respondents experience the most neighbor-related noise issues in the evening.

This suggests sounds from your neighbor can filter into your house, and it’s natural to worry they can also hear your ruckus.

So, if I can hear my neighbors outside, can they hear me inside? While sound transmission depends on certain variables like volume, the general rule is that if you can distinctly hear patio partiers, barking dogs, or mowing next door, your neighbors will likely also pick up on yelling, loud music, or jumping inside your home.

Whether or not your neighbors can hear you inside depends on a few key factors. Let’s break it down.

What are some common noise ordinances in residential areas?

Most neighborhoods and apartment buildings have rules about noise to keep the peace between residents. These are called noise ordinances.

Some typical residential noise ordinances include:

  • Quiet hours: The times of day when louder noises are prohibited, usually between 10 pm-7 am on weeknights and 11 pm-7 am on weekends. The point is to allow people to sleep.
  • Maximum noise levels: The maximum volume allowed during daytime and nighttime hours. For example, noise above 50 decibels may be prohibited at night. Shouting or blasting music could violate this.
  • Prohibited activities: Specific noisy behaviors that are banned, like using loud tools, letting dogs bark, or yelling. These types of sounds can be a nuisance.
  • Enforcement: Police can enforce noise rules by issuing fines or even jail time in extreme cases. You can file a noise complaint if a neighbor is being disruptive.

As you can see, most neighborhoods discourage boisterous noise, especially at night. But how well can sounds carry between your home and your neighbor’s? Let’s explore that next.

If I can hear my neighbors outside can they hear me inside?

The short answer is MOST LIKELY.

Since sound can travel between homes in both directions, it’s generally true that if you can clearly hear neighbors’ activities outside, they can probably hear loud noises like shouting or blasting music coming from inside your home as well, though not as much average volume sounds.

The transmission goes both ways in most cases.

Whether sounds can travel from your casa to your neighbor’s depends on a few factors:

Construction materials

Houses made of brick or concrete block noise better than flimsier wooden walls and floors. The density and mass of materials like brick, concrete, and stone make it more difficult for sound waves to pass through them compared to less dense materials like plywood or drywall. This means homes constructed from solid concrete tend to block sounds better than homes made with wood framing.

Distance between homes

The farther apart your houses are, the harder it is to hear noises from the neighbor’s property. As sound waves travel away from their source, they lose energy and fade in volume over distance. Even loud sounds dissipate the farther they move through the air. So, homes that are spaced widely apart have an inherent noise buffer between them.


Louder sounds obviously carry farther than quieter ones. The intensity of noises like blasting music or shouting allows them to maintain energy longer and transmit more easily between homes compared to softer sounds like normal conversation. High-volume sounds travel better through the air.

The following table provides some examples of sound volumes and how far they can carry:

SoundVolume (dB)Distance Audible
Whisper30Up to 1.6 – 3 feet
Normal conversation60Up to 3 – 20 feet
Vacuum cleaner70Up to 50 – 100 feet
Power tools100Over 200 – 500 feet (~ 8 times as loud as 70dB)
Rock concert120Nearly 1 mile
How volume affects the distance sound can carry

Background noise

Sounds like traffic makes it harder to hear noises between homes. Constant ambient noise during the daytime can help mask dull sounds traveling between neighboring houses. Quiet nights without steady background noise allow noises to be heard more clearly.

Open windows

Your neighbor can hear inside noises easier if your windows are cracked open. Glass is not as effective at blocking sound waves as solid exterior walls in a home. Opening windows eliminates the buffering effect of closed windows and allows noises to travel through more freely.


Fences, trees, and bushes help absorb sound traveling between yards. Landscaping features and vegetation disrupt and scatter sound waves moving through outdoor areas. Flat, open spaces with no plants or barriers allow better, uninterrupted noise transmission between homes.

The bottom line: If you can clearly hear patio partiers, dog barking, or lawn mowing next door, your neighbor will likely hear loud music, yelling, or jump rope sessions inside your home. But for average-volume noises, thick walls and closed windows help block sounds.

Now, let’s look at how to actually measure noise coming from rowdy neighbors so you can document problems.

How can I measure the noise level in my apartment?

If your neighbor’s ruckus is keeping you up at night, you’ll want evidence to back up your complaints. Here are some ways to get a read on noise levels:

  • Sound level meter: This device measures decibels accurately. You can buy one or download meter apps, but those aren’t as precise.
  • Smart home device: If you already have an Alexa or Google Home, try its decibel monitoring feature. It gives a rough estimate.
  • Weather station: Some home weather stations actually track noise pollution, too. Cool two-for-one!
  • Acoustic engineer: For expert analysis, you can hire an engineer to take detailed sound readings and make recommendations.
  • Check ordinances: Look up local noise rules, which specify legal noise limits by decibel level and time of day. This gives you a target threshold.
  • Document disturbances: Note each time a neighbor makes a noise that bothers you and the time it occurs. This log can provide evidence if you make a formal complaint.

A good rule of thumb is that anything above 70 decibels during daytime or 60 at nighttime is too loud for shared housing. But requirements vary by city, so check your local regulations.

Armed with data, you can now politely discuss the problem with your neighbors. But you may not know the best way to approach it. More tips next!

How can I approach my neighbors about noise complaints?

Dealing with noisy neighbors can be awkward. You want to solve the issue, not start World War III. Here are some friendly tips for having the talk:

  • Timing: Bring it up during the day at a reasonable hour when they’re more likely to stay calm. Late-night knocks on the door won’t go over well.
  • Tone: Keep it light and polite, even if you’re super annoyed. Assume they don’t realize there’s a problem and give them the benefit of the doubt.
  • Specific complaint: Explain exactly what noise bothers you, like loud TV or music at night. Stick to just the facts.
  • Impact: Mention how the noise affects you, making it hard to sleep or focus on work. Don’t blame or attack them, though.
  • Solutions: Offer some compromises, like using a sound bar at a lower volume or moving speakers away from shared walls.
  • Compromise: See if you can find a middle ground, like agreeing on quiet hours or alternating loud activities.
  • Listen: Let them share their side and actively listen. Is there room for give and take?
  • Follow up: Check-in politely if issues continue after your talk. Involve the landlord only as a last resort.
  • Stay friendly: Maintain a positive attitude and keep communicating. The goal is to solve the problem, not create bad blood.

With patience and understanding on both sides, noise issues can often be resolved peacefully. But when all else fails, you may need to take steps to soundproof your space. Let’s explore some options.

How can I reduce the noise coming from my neighbors?

If chats don’t lead to quieter nights, there are some DIY tricks to try:

  • Soundproofing: Add mass-loaded vinyl, acoustic panels, or insulation to your walls. Seal any cracks or gaps around windows and under doors. Thick curtains also help muffle sound.
  • Noise-canceling devices: Listen to headphones or earplugs to mask irritating noises. I like playing white noise or nature sounds to drown out ruckus.
  • Furniture placement: Position beds, couches, and desks away from shared walls or floors where noise comes through. Rugs and soft furnishings absorb more sound.
  • Schedule shifts: Plan quiet activities like reading for times when neighbors are rowdy. Do laundry or watch movies when they’re less noisy.
  • Talk to the landlord: If nothing else works, explain the problem and ask if they can add insulation between units or move you to a quieter spot.

You can usually find an acceptable noise level with some strategic soundproofing and a bit of compromise. But in extreme cases, moving farther from the ruckus may be your only sanity saver.

The takeaway

Dealing with noisy neighbors can be a headache, but there are ways to reduce the impact of their ruckus:

  • Learn about local noise ordinances so you know your rights in resolving issues. Most limit loud noises, especially at night when people want peace and quiet.
  • Realize that sound transmission between homes depends on factors like construction, distance, volume, and background noise. If you can hear them outside, they can probably hear you inside, too.
  • Measure decibel levels accurately to back up complaints. Smartphone apps, sound meters, and acoustic engineers can provide data on disturbing noises.
  • Approach neighbors diplomatically to discuss problems and compromise on solutions. Assumptions and friendliness go a long way in keeping the peace.
  • Add soundproofing features like acoustic panels and weatherstripping to muffle noise in your unit. Reorienting furniture also helps.

The moral: With understanding and a few handy tips, noisy neighbors don’t have to ruin your sanity or quality of life at home. A little patience and creativity can go a long way toward restoring the peace.

I hope these pointers help you resolve issues with rowdy neighbors! Let me know if you have any other tips to share

Zebedee Nambaleo
Zebedee Nambaleo

Zebedee is the founder of RealEstate Ke. He creates content by carefully examining and analyzing the real estate market, home improvement resources, and government data. His analysis is based on the principle of supplying high-quality, relevant, and in-depth information to his audience. By evaluating the current conditions and predicting future trends, he provides his audience with invaluable insights that allow them to make better decisions.